Idiocracy; is described as a society or group that is controlled by or consists of people of low intelligence. Men. There, I said it. Its men. Particularly married men. They are arguably challenged, exhausted and in an endless loop of responsibilities on a daily basis. Poor married man. But they are born to be a leader, a provider, a required role once married. However, some men, like in this group of idiocracy, instead of sharing these black spots of heart with his wife, he proudly thinking, and when supported by his mates, finding other hearts to share. Why, you asked? Because he doesn't want his wife to see his imperfection in his role as her leader for such men hides his weakness. The ego of an idiocracy married men is so high, he only sees himself in the sky, and the perception of him in the eyes below him. The wife, having no clue what is going on because she sees her husband constant perfection, often has doubts in her hearts about his loyalty. Although he terribly hides his dark side successfully, he can never escapes the wife's instinct. She has either caught him early by stumbling onto massive evidence for which fate lend it to her, or her curiosity as to her husband recent trip to Kelantan, where it is all too late.
Now, I mentioned these men's ego. He only sees the relevance on his side. He never cared for what his wife will live after this. This is because woman's heart most commonly and accurately described as the ocean. It may looked calm, wether through any storm, it calms afterwards. This is because she has all the cruelty, doubts, sadness, pain drowned with her, to appear strong to those around her. I always say, she either sinks or swim. Sinks in the new painful life she has to endure with another woman her husband also calls a wife, or swims to a new life, for which she is still the star, the hero of the movie, the main character. She won't be caring for an idiot husband anymore. He failed to value her as a wife. I'm not saying first wife has no value, they have a higher value because they can endure the rough seas of what we called an idiot husband. But there is so much a woman can take.
Men will say, it's halal. Shame on us to reject Rasulullah teachings. We do not. Our rejection to the concept doesn't reflect the status of acceptance of what was given by Allah swt. Allah swt also says He will not gives us more than we can bear. We believe in that. Just as Allah swt gives us an escape, a better path. He is the best provider, the best giver, the most Understanding and the most Caring. I always argue when asked, can you accept? I firmly said No. But what if it is destined for you? I will humbly accept. One will argue whats the difference? You will accept eventually. Well for instance, the two situation is very different. The first being the presence of choice, whilst the other did not. Bottom line is, NO. ha ha ha
So to woman married to idiot man, wait. Let me rephrase that to protect certain egos. To the (first) wife of idiocracy, Please be alert.
